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"Smart Women, Foolish Choices" (originally Smart Women, Foolish Choices, by the author duo Connell Cowan and Melvyn Kinder) is an extremely influential handbook in the field of popular psychology that deals with the phenomenon of emotional and partner failures of modern, independent and successful women. The book explores an apparent paradox: why women who achieve extraordinary results in love on a professional and personal level often repeat destructive patterns and choose emotionally unavailable, irresponsible or wrong partners. Through numerous examples from clinical practice, the authors analyze unconscious psychological mechanisms, unrealistic expectations and repressed fears that influence the choice of a partner. The book analyzes the pitfalls of indulgence, idealization, the difficult struggle with emotional dependence, as well as the tendency to confuse tension and drama with true intimacy and love. Cowan and Kinder do not offer quick and superficial solutions, but encourage readers to engage in deep self-reflection, recognize their own "blind spots" and change destructive patterns of behavior. Written in an accessible, compassionate and direct style, the book "Smart Women, Wrong Choices" is a practical and timeless guide for anyone who wants to understand the psychology of relationships, free themselves from misconceptions about love and build a stable, mature and equal partnership.