Zašto muškarci vole gadure: od otirača do djevojke iz snova - vodič koji će naučiti žene kako u odnosu zadržati svoj stav

Success in love is achieved through attitude. "Why men love jerks" is a humorous guide to relationships, aimed at "too good" women. With the basic message that success in love is not achieved by appearance but by attitude (although the media wants to convince us otherwise), the author teaches women how to have or maintain that attitude.

In order to have some self-respect, he says, a little disrespect is absolutely necessary - for what others think. "Gadura" is a strong woman who draws enormous strength from her ability to think independently, especially in a world that still forces women to sacrifice themselves. Such a woman does not live according to other people's standards, but only according to her own standards. This is a woman who plays by her own rules, who has a sense of self-confidence, freedom and strength.

The badasses that men love have an "I don't care" attitude and possess "sharpness". It is, not by chance, the same sharpness that attracts men, who - when describing a woman who does not try to get a man at all costs - regularly talk about a "mental challenge". The word gadura has the same meaning as their principle of mental challenge. And this feature is especially attractive to them.